According to an amusing, if not somewhat saddening piece from MiamiHerald.Typepad.com’s section on gay south Florida, by Mary Ellen Klas, Florida Lt. Governor Jennifer Carrol on Thursday, July 26, 2012 apologized for making the insipid remark that women who look like her can’t be gay – in responding to allegations that she had been caught in a “compromising position” with a female aide. Florida Lt. Governor Jennifer Carrol was allegedly caught in a
Map of the districts of the Florida District Courts of Appeal. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
“compromising position” by a former aide named Carletha Cole.
Cole, the former aide, said in court documents the she caught Lt. Governor Jennifer Carrol in a -ahem- “compromising position” with a female aide. What type of “position” the two ladies were in, we are not allowed to know; but of course the Lt. Governor denies any such activity and responded with the extremely caring response that “black women that look like me don’t engage in relationships like that,” (which is verbatim from the video on the site). The aide who happened in on matters passed a polygraph test, but polygraphs are not admissible in Florida courts according to the piece.
Lt. Governor Carrol was certainly correct to apologize for her degrading and insensitive remarks and correct to state that her comments are “wrong and inexcusable.”
Unfortunately, the Lt. Governor did not explain what her former aide happened upon the day the “compromising position” was reportedly discovered and how the aide could have been confused or mistaken as to report such an incident.
Seriously, we here at InterraceToday.com love anyone (and everyone) who follows us in social media, but if you’re a celebrity, certainly, you should try to keep a handle on racist rants that you (should) know could show up online. Right?
This is what you would think, but then again, people can’t help themselves from being who (and what) they truly are. Not that we’re calling anyone racist (at least not yet and not without our trusty legal department notified beforehand).
That being said, according to ABC News, in a piece by Alon Karish,
With the announcement that last season’s runner-up,Â Ben Flajnik,Â will be the newÂ BachelorÂ on the show’s 16th season one thing about him and the series stands out — leaving us to wonder: Why isÂ The BachelorÂ always white?
Americais a melting pot of different cultures and nationalities. The country’s demographics are constantly changing and popular culture slowly but surely evolves to keep pace with the real world. That is unless you are a hit reality series onÂ ABCÂ where 25 women and men compete for the affections of aÂ BachelorÂ orÂ Bachelorette. That is as long as everyone is white.
English: Manila Luzon at local signing event. (Photo credit: Wikipedia). Can you imagine Manilla as the next Bachelorette? We’d watch every episode. Twice.
One would think that in 16 seasons of the hit TV seriesÂ The BachelorÂ ABCÂ would have thought to reflect the make up of their real world viewers by choosing a person of color as the ultimate romantic prize.
It’s not only the bachelors that are white but the majority of contestants competing for the bachelor’s heart are also white. This then becomes a repeated cycle because the runner up of one show almost always becomes the newÂ BachelorÂ orÂ BacheloretteÂ in the next season of the related show. And the cycle of the white romantic prize repeats for another season
It’s not that there have not been any minority contestants of at all. It’s just that the people of color that do make it on the cast of the show, end up eliminated in the early rounds of eliminations leaving white suitors vying for a white prize.
Season after season minority contestants that are few and far in between never make it past the first rose ceremony. Often if you are a person of color expect to leave the show on episode one with no rose and no life partner. With the exception ofÂ BachelorÂ season 6 winner Mary Delgado, who is Cuban-American, minority suitors are the first to go home.
In addition, in the combined 22 seasons ofÂ The BachelorÂ andÂ The BacheloretteÂ there have been no people of color chosen byÂ ABCÂ for the title role of either show. Minority contestants are fine forÂ dancing,Â singing, andÂ racing around the globeÂ but when it comes to matters of the heart only white is right.
ThisÂ criticism of the show is not newÂ and in the past when questioned about the whiteness of The Bachelor the show’s executive producer Mike Fleiss has claimed that people of colorÂ “don’t come forward”Â to try out for the shows. Apparently, Mr. Fleiss wants us to believe that minority contestants only show up en masse for casting calls for shows onÂ VH1Â and Bravo.
The question is whether the whiteness of the cast is deliberate to avoid controversy and damage the ratings of such a successfulÂ ABCÂ series.
It’s not just the race of the suitors and those sought after that are a throwback to a past era, both shows are also heteronormative. There is little room in theÂ ABCÂ formula for contestants who don’t fit the mold of “traditional” couples, a white man and a white woman. If in 16 seasonsABCÂ has not chosen a bachelor who is note white and heterosexual, how long before a black or Hispanic bachelor? Do we have to wait until season 32 for a gay bachelor?
It’s curious thatÂ ABCÂ who has frequently chosen diverse casts for their other hit reality television series cannot break out of the same old routine when it comes toÂ The Bachelor. It’s not that they are afraid of “controversy.”
It’s clear that they are willing to think outside of the proverbial box, with theÂ selection of Chaz BonoÂ for the new season ofÂ Dancing with the Stars, a choice that has caused a lot of bigoted criticism to be hurled atÂ ABC. ABCÂ should be commended for this casting choice and one hopes they can make the same progressive choice in casting their romantic leads.
Why not allow interracial relationships, which are no longer taboo, to be shown on your signature dating competition? America has voted for multiple blackÂ American Idols, male and femaleÂ Dancing With the StarsÂ champions of all races, and even elected a president who is the product of an interracial relationship.
Come onÂ ABCÂ we are ready for aÂ BachelorÂ orÂ BacheloretteÂ who isn’t white.
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